Getting a divorce need advice?

let me ask something i am going to file on monday so my ex wants to have my son everyother week i told him i dont think thats good! he lives in another town i said how will he get to school his brother or sister n law will drive him. i dont think thats right he should be with his mom what do you think of this. his dad has only given me 60.00 out of the last 3 months. he is brain washing him he told my son i'm going to take your moms truck away he threatened me to take it away and said he would tell them it was stolen so i went to the police he said he can not do that by law he gets a car andyou get one too. any advice? my poor son is all i think of i have done everything for him i'm the one who does his homework we are on a schedule not once has he ever done his homework now he wants to be a dad any suggestions! i cannot wait to file let me tell youGetting a divorce need advice?
let the father see his kid! GEEEEEZ!!!Getting a divorce need advice?
Well the final way out is that u have to hire a clever lawyer and file a case against him proving that he is incapable of bringing up the kid. Only then u can get rid of him full and finally. http://www.reviewlocator.com/reviews/surviving-divorce-divorce-survival-a-review-on-product-prepare-for-divorce/
here is what he will get he will get the child ever other week


end. Saturday and sunday. and he will half to bring him


home. during the summer when school is out he will get them for half the summer all so. he will get them ever other


holiday. and to ne honest child support don't have any thing


to do with visitation. this is what the judge will order.
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Before I answer I have to say I have no direct experience in divorce. Keep in mind, its going to be rough for a little bit no matter what. The best thing you can do is to not fight with your soon to be ex. You have a son so you can't avoid him, but when you do speak with him keep it on the subject of your son and only on that topic and be polite. Also keep a record of every confrontation or anything negative he does, as detailed as possible (write down dates times, if its a phone call keep any record you can, if its a note or a message on a phone save it). Talk with a lawer, let them litagate the divorce, and let the court decied who gets what, and custody issues. Other than that keep all contact professional and polite.
i think alot wud have 2 do w/how old ur son is. if hes old enuf 2 understand then talk 2 ur son about it. dont fret the stuff like the truck and stuff cuz there is nuthing he can do about it. file on monday, ur gunna have 2 get a lawyer but let him do all the work and dont worry. theyll figure out child supprot and base it off the day u seperated not the day u filed so ull get back child support. plus theyll do all the figuring n who gets what, just tell ur lawyer what y want and theyll fght it out 4 u. they r not going 2 take ur son away unless ur sum crack addict who doesnt take care of ur kids which ur obviously not so itll b fine. they usually wont set up visitation where he gets him every other week especially while he lives outta town. the whole point is 2 keep the kid n a stable enviroment and shuttlng back n forth that much is not that stable. get a good lawyer and i dont think ull have 2 worry much good luck