Whats best advice for thinking about a divorce?

need ideas.Whats best advice for thinking about a divorce?
1, talk things over


2, get counseling


3, think things over


4, get advice from a church %26amp; family %26amp; friends


5, Get a Lawyer


6, Try Getting a motel first %26amp; diffrent thingsWhats best advice for thinking about a divorce?
When you can walk away from your spouse, with no anger, hate, or any ill feelings. When you can wish them well and want them to have a good life, and mean it. When you can walk away with a peaceful heart, knowing you have done everything you could to save your marriage. There is a new movie out called Fireproof. It is christian based and it about a young man and his wife, who for whatever reason can't communicate. She is ready to call it quites, and he after his father suggests it, tries to win her heart back in 40 days. It is a good movie and it brings a lot of why couples have miscommunication. You might give it a try.
Make sure you can afford the consequences.


Make sure you are doing it for the right reason.


Make sure when you walk away you have no ill feelings toward the other person.


Make sure that you respect the other person still.


Make sure you're ready for a different lifestyle afterwards.


Make sure your kids (if you have them) know they still have their parents' love.


Make sure this is what you want before going forward.
first get the advice of a lawyer to make sure u know what your rights are. first talk it over,see if there is anything else u could do to save the marriage because u don't want to rethink it years down the road and realize it could have been saved with some therapy, or christian counseling.
I would advise you and your wife to go to DivorceCare separately BEFORE you get divorced.


Almost everyone that goes through this 13 week program says - ';I wish I had known this stuff BEFORE I got married!';





It's to your advantage to do this. Finding about yourself could save what you've got left.
Quit thinking about it. Think more of how you can save your relationship.
You shouldn't be thinking about divorce if your married
get a lawyer