Thursday, December 31, 2009

Does anyone have advice on doing a divorce mediation in Texas?

WHy have divorce meditation when all you need to know is you get half and he gets half of evertything you both own. Except teh kids, mostly they go with the Mother depends on the judge.Does anyone have advice on doing a divorce mediation in Texas?
Sure.





For sure use a mediating attorney --- same attorney for you both. As well, each of you ought to have downloaded divorce papers for your state from the internet, gotten them from an office supply place or at the county court house in the county in which you live. And as well, you and he ought to have sat down together to decide who gets what. If you each get an attorney, and get into what is called the adversarial stance, the $5000 you mentioned would be just one side, and just for starters!!!!! It is never in your best interest to go to court NEVER.





So,have a look at those papers, before you make your appointment with your mediating attorney, because the less time and effort he has to spend hammering out agreements between you, the less it will cost... usually somewhere between $75-300 depending upon state and county. Call around, look in the yellow pages under attorney -- divorce -- mediating.





You and he may decide to fill none of it out, that you agree privately on the split, and each trusts the other... (if you cana't trust him, then get the blanks filled out.)Does anyone have advice on doing a divorce mediation in Texas?
The link below should answer all of your questions.





http://www.divorcelawtexas.com/txpages/D鈥?/a>
The biggest thing in divorce mediation is to learn the fine art of compromising. Be willing to trade something you really dont want but they do in return for something you do want. Dont settle for everything but go for what you want. Go for all you want as in the end youll end up with majority of what you want.Dont appear too eager to trade,let the other party start first and see what they offer.Remember they too will be trying to get what they want so negoiate and compromise. Good luck

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