Family/Divorce Advice.?

Ok my mom gets really mad when I call my stepmother mom, because she says I only have one mother and all this other stuff.


I feel bad for her when she gets mad and upset, and I do understand her. and my dad asked me to call her mom.





Should I still call my stepmother mom???


Plse help... thx.Family/Divorce Advice.?
I understand your mom being upset because she is your only mom. Your dad has no right to ask you to call her mom. Come up with a clever name for her. Like my step grandaughter calls me NONIE. Thant is just what she picked. Or call her another name maybe you and her and your dad can decide on. Your stepmom is not your mother. You know that and we all do. So as I said be creative and come up with another cool name. Good Luck. By the way dad shouldnt pressure you like this. I am sorry your going through this.Family/Divorce Advice.?
Sounds like you mom is still a little upset over the whole dad remarrying thing or else she would not really care about u calling her mom...she knows that u know u only have one mom an calling the stepmom mom should not make any difference it is your mom that has the issue ..tell u what i would do call her mom when ur mother is not around and let your dad know why u are doing so maybe he will be mature and understand the situation and respect you for doing the right thing.....it's just a word so lets now let it destroy any relationships...
first, ask your stepmother if your allowed to call her any other names. for example, maybe by her first name or ms. {first name} or anything else. then talk to your dad and say that your uncomfotable calling her mom wen you no you only have one mom. hopefully they will understand.
i have the exact same problem i tell my step mother sum of my personal prob. and my mama fells that i like her more and thats not it its that my step mother is more open and she can relate to my prob. and is there anytime
i know exactly how you feel same situation but do what u feel best doing .. but at the same time think of the people around you.. i would advize you to explain to your mom why you call your step mom, mom
your mom has a point. shes your mom not the other lady, but i guess what ever you feel comy with then go for it. maybe just call her by her name or call her step mom.
Ask her what she would like to be addressed as in front of your mom, by her first name or this is my stepmom.....

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