MY friend called me today to inform me that her boyfriend of 8 months had broken up with her because of his parent's divorce. She says he appears to be a completely different person. Instead of forming stronger bonds with the people around him he is pushing them away. I would like advice on what might aid his feelings and not destroy all his relationships. Please, any advice would help especially from people that went through a parent's divorce. ThanksBoy in pain during Parent's Divorce: Any advice helps :)?
Be an open ear and listen, no advice for now. He needs to vent his frustration. He also is concerned because he can't do anything to help the situation he's in.Boy in pain during Parent's Divorce: Any advice helps :)?
How old are you people? What would aid his feelings is for people to let him be and not be amateur psychoanalysts. Who says he is pushing them away and destroying relationships? Perhaps he just needs time to himself. Be alarmed if he cuts himself or has angry outbursts or starts taking drugs, but just because someone breaks up with you doesn't mean they must be losing it to leave you. Maybe he just needs time alone.
he rather dump her than risk pain...simple
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