Im thinking about divorce but iI want full custody of my newborn any advice on how iI can get that?

And the reason for me wanting to do this is cause I don't think she will be a good mother because she has 2 different kids with 2 different dads and this makes me and my son the 3rd and I think that she's so diffacult cause of her past she doesn't know her father and her mom chose her step dad over her and I belive her step dad did something to her when she was young ';my wife';Im thinking about divorce but iI want full custody of my newborn any advice on how iI can get that?
Well i would ask how long hav you ben married?? and have you tried everything to make it work maybe counseling??? i dont think you really have a case against her to say that she is an unfit mother sunds like there are just undelt with issues that need to be discussed and elt with..its irrelevant that she has different baby daddies or etc you knew these things before you got married to her..a marriage isnt like having a gf where you can just break up and hat be that marriage is a commitment and you made vows,now if you have to get out then no need to be in a situation where you arent happy... but make sure you have tried everything you know you could to make it work so you can at least say that you tried.. as far ar your child unless he shows that she is abusive and not a good mother to her children you hve every right to ty and get custody,but you have a newborn and right now that baby needs its mother.. try it make it workIm thinking about divorce but iI want full custody of my newborn any advice on how iI can get that?
Wow, your having a child with her, and you want to take it off her. Has she ever abused her other two children? Is there a reason she shouldnt have them besides the fact that she has other children to other fathers? Is she actually a BAD mother?


Her background should have nothing to do with this, as long as she is a good mother!!!!!!!!!


If this is your only reason for divorce and wanting custody of your child, then you need to grow up.
Typically the fathers aren't given full custody over the children unless the mother is willing and most mothers aren't willing. Your reason listed above is not a good enough reason to me and probably to the judge that would be good enough to say she won't be a good parent. Divorce is such a hard and complicated experience. If you are thinking about it their may be a chance to save your marriage. you wanting your child is why millions of people choose to stay together. Either way it goes i recommend you to think long and hard because you can't take back the damage once it's done. you must also prepare yourself for the worst which is you don't always get what you want. You need to embrace your wife let her know that no matter what you are their that what love is. understanding her pain and helping her to heal. Adults didn't choose their childhood. I haven't had a perfect one but because of constant love I am able to feel loved. Your wife whether she says it or not knows your feelings about her. You loved her enough to say i do. now be man enough to say i will no matter what (be their to the end) good luck and remember 1 out of every 5 marriages last don't be another statistic.