Where is the best website to get experienced advice on marriage and divorce ?

I'm going through a complicated divorce (married 17yrs, %26amp; still love him) need experienced advice/blog support from those (30+) who've been there-done that.


I'm an emotional and financial wreck (in Michigan).


He has parkinsons and says he still loves me and the kids but lost his job, caused me to loose mine, he has moved into another residence with an 80 yr old woman and her 55 yr old daughter. He has filed, we are getting a divorce.Where is the best website to get experienced advice on marriage and divorce ?
Try these two message boards.Where is the best website to get experienced advice on marriage and divorce ?
You haven't specified what kind of help your looking for or this may be a good source. If you still love eachother why the need for a divorce? Have you tried working out the problem? My wife and I were heading for a divorce over a stinking cell phone and her desire to talk to other men and mind you tell them she was already divorced.We have since moved on and worked out our problems but just to give you an example. I've also seen other folks do what I beleive is the same thing you're doing, divorcing because you feel someone else will give you the support you need. Either way it is totally senseless, kind of like trying to add meaning to war. Thank you for your answer, I'm alittle younger than you at 38 years but I have gone through a partial experience such as yours. All I can say is keep trying to work out the problem because if it is like you say, after loosing a job and not being able to help support the family, most of us men consider ourselves to be worthless. Nothing you did, but it's hard to put the meaning back in life when you spend it all living for someone else and can't help them let alone yourself. I guess you could call it self sacrifice. The best advice I can give is to try as much as possible not to get one. Hope this helps. Best wishes, Tom.