Divorce advice?

Wife and I have been apart for 6 weeks... Both started dating. Today at counseling we decided to date each other but be open to dating others as well. So we are taking baby steps. Great girl but we never communicated. What are the chances of this working?Divorce advice?
you answered your own question,if you communicate and are honest with each other it probably will work.Divorce advice?
Never work out! Unless you agree to only date each other. Too much jealously and pain.
you're in for pain and heartbreak.. try to work things out with your wife! start communicating! you took vows after all!
Go out to play, have nice dinner and dance together


try to find some hobby to enjoy, maybe take short vacation to just change the place. Try to care and do something nice to each other.


Don't make any bad comments to get into the fight - silence is golden - or shot up can really help. Don't talk about past - make some short bat real plans for the future .......... and love, love each other


with fool respect and sens making communication. Be realistic is only your good faith call to find out if something left of the love from the past.!!!!!
How will you be able to deal with knowing that she has slept with another man on one of her dates? How will that make things easier for you?





Sounds like you need to wish her well, agree that you are not right for each other, and find a woman that you can talk to.
See if she will double date with you and your new girl- that will help you see how open she really is to the whole process. If she goes for it, suggest a foursome, make sure to videotape so you have something to show at your 50th anniversary party.
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excellent chance 99.9%


as you say baby step, you see you know that you guys have not beeing communicating and knowing is the first step in fixing the problem


Good Luck
The chances of this working out when you are both dating other people is absolutely ZERO!
I'm amazed that a married man and a married women can get people to date them at all!


If you're dating other people, I give this about a 1% chance of working out.. and I feel sorry for the schumcks you date while still being married and ';dating'; your wife.


Why not just get a divorce and move on with your lives? Why all this messing around? Either you're married or your not. Dating and dating other people is ludicrious!
none.
No communication means no marriage. Now, do you communicate with other women, or is it just her that you have issues with? If you don't communicate well at all then that's something you need to work through and who better to help you through it than someone who knows you.
Very Slim chance if you are dating others. If you do work it out, most often one person ussually always feels hurt over what each other did during the seperation. If you really want this marriage, I would advise for you to pause on dating anyone else while figuring it all out.
Very slim, it seems to me. The dynamics of dating your spouse are sooo different from that of dating other people. You'll both be suspiscious of each other's dating activities, and will be wondering whether or not the other person is dating someone else.
my guess is it all depends on how hard you and her BOTH want this marriage to work, or how bad you dont want it to work.
Communication is an important role in a healthy marriage.


Honestly if you all want to share what is precious to each of you with other people (open relationship) then really there is no need to continue a marriage. I mean if you all are single then you can still do the same thing you are doing now. If one of you happen to meet someone that you would look for a future with then if your still married you are hurting yourself and the other person.
If you are both committed to it working, then it will work. Take your time, work hard in counseling and on following through with the instructions from the counselor and things should work just fine.
They are good if you are both willing to work at it and start communicating.
stop paying the counselor and instead spen the money ona nice vacation





couselors will confuse you and keep you comin back ($$)





go back to church...you went before?





get her back in the house or go home ...surrender
without communication you have nothing..i am learning that the hard way now..


if your willing to work it out and try again, be honest and open with each other and you'll have a chance.
Been divorced and it doesn't work. Been through the counseling and it doesn't work. When someone wants out bad enough, neither will work until the marriage is over with. Be careful of the jealousy thing too. That can get you every time.
My ex hub did this to me and he ended up falling for his girl and we broke up it was more messier this way and feelings were hurt and signals were mixed but hey if your therapist told you to try it then I guess you can good luck
uummm why would you still want to be with anyone that you know they are fu*king other people?? Sick stuff...Move on
If you can find it, go rent ';Nina Takes a Lover';. It's an older movie, kinda artsy, but deals with this subject very well I think for both parties involved.





I have never once heard of dating other people saving a marriage. If you never communicated then now would be the time to do that. Date your wife but...other people too? Sounds to me like an excuse to get a little bit of ';strange'; on both sides.





Either way, watch the movie.
Just make Sure you get a Good Lawyer if it doesnt work.





Good Luck
Only you can answer that.
There is hope if you both are willing to work on the problems. Marriage it's not easy everyday is a new challenge.