Divorce Advice PLEASE!!!!?

So here is my problem. My wife of 9 years wants a divorce. We have 4 great kids together. I am not planning on fighting her on this. Whatever she wants me to sign I will. We already agreed on joint custody and to me nothing else matters. I love her as much as I can love another person. I want her to be happy even if it's without me. That is why I will give her the divorce she wants. That is the last thing I want. She has just been so unhappy with me for the past 3 years and she wants to move on. Is there something I am missing here? Am I not doing what I am supposed to? I keep thinking that if I become the person she always wanted me to be that I will one day have her back. It may be naive but that is all I have. If I faced reality I would probably kill myself. I came close twice and they locked me up in the hospital for it. I just want to be with my wife I just don't think I can make her happy. Any attempts to help me with this would be appreciated. Thank YouDivorce Advice PLEASE!!!!?
I will be honest with you, why would you attempt to take you life! You have 4 great kids, don't they matter? So your wife is unhappy, if you want any change in the future you have to move on, work on yourself. You can not really change for anyone, but you can grow up. I know it hurts right now, it will get better. I will pray for you. Think positive, who knows what the future will bring, she may change her mind after you become whole.


Remember, you have kids together, your lives will always be entwined.Divorce Advice PLEASE!!!!?
First off you shouldn't even think about committing suicide, think about your children. Don't you want to see them grown, see your grand children? What would they think of their father, leaving them that way? Don't be selfish.


On the other note, life goes on. You can't beat yourself up because she doesn't want you anymore, trust me, I know I did for years. Just piece your life together without her for awhile and you will see you can make it and you will, I repeat and promise, you will be happy again.


Your children need you. I need to see that their parents can be happy with and without each other. Your children can sense your mental state by the way.


You can find other loves out there, it's possible. I did. Now I'm remarried with another child and happier than I ever was before.


Piece yourself together, keep your chin up because at a time like this, your children need you more than ever.


Good luck!


P.S. counseling always helps to, I still go.
Seek a good Lawyer.
ask her why shes unhappy in the marriage, thats a start, you cant force her to stay in a marriage if shes unhappy, maybe she has found someone else that makes her happy.
You need to ask her why she wants the divorce. What the problem is. Hopefully she will be honest and an adult about it. If that don't work, ask her to write you a letter. Then you need to accept that and realize that you have children to love and love you. Ending your life is not the way to do things, it is the loser way out and your children need you as you need them. Keep your head up and get a counselor to help you through this. Adults handle situations differently then children do.





You need to be there for the children and make then understand that things did not work out between you and their mother and let them know that no matter what, you and their mom love them and it is not their fault. Talk to your wife and hopefully you and her can understand that things didn't work. Don't blame yourself or take your life.....live for your children and love them.
No point in forcing her....let her go and if she feels she still loves you she will return if not just be happy for her for her new found happiness...


What belong to you will be yours...
saying is easy but doing is hard i am married too but happy i am not sure, you know my husband does fast everything to make me happy but sometimes i think i am still not happy , he have lot of money and he gives me lot of holidays tickets. money to go and do shopping. What else a person need............


But only think what he give me less is his TIME. we spend so less time together. And thats the reason why i want to divorce him, maybe next year,,,,,,