i have been with my husband for 4 1/2 years we have been married 1 1/2 years. We now realized that we just got married and was together in the first place out of convience and not wanting to be alone. I dont want to be with him anymore and he feels the same but its still heartbreaking for me. We have been together since i was 17 and i have never been alone before. I need advice and motivation and support on how to move on and mend my heart even though its a abnormal circumstance. BTW we have to continue to live together until the end of march due to financial obligations! HELP!Divorce advice for a young childless couple married 1 1/2 years?
Well fortunately the feelings seem to be mutual between u , and greatfully there are no children involved.. i think that u should both just agree to be roomates so to speak until march.. u obviously care about each other , just dont want to be married anymore.. so be each others friend, sit down and talk to each other about basically actting as if ur nothing more then roomates at this point.. if u both agree that u want to see other people do so, maybe with the guideline that u dont bring the other people home, that would be to weird.. but outside of the house u act as if ur not married, inside the house u act only as roomates that split the bills, and have an amicable divorce when the time comes, this should be realatively easy if u both care about each other and want the best for each other ...
Hopefully u will meet someone new who will fill the void of being lonely.. and will make it easier to move on from this.. while he's still there.... better for u to pretend to basically be on ur own now while he's still there to get use to a life with out him then for it all to happen at the blink of an eye come march.Divorce advice for a young childless couple married 1 1/2 years?
you do what you have to do.......even if you wanted it to end it would hurt....no one gets married thinking it is not going to be forever.....what you have to realize that forever could be months or years or yes, a lifetime. Since you can't be on your own until the end of March.....make the best of it...for both of you!
Just file for divorce, there's nothing to say that you can't still live together and then move on in April.
I think it is very brave of both of you to admit that you are together to avoid being alone. One of worst reasons to marry is for the fear of being alone. I am even more glad to hear that you were wise to wait on the children. A marriage you can walk away from. Kids you cannot. There does not seem any assets to dispute. Sooooo......get divorced.
Good luck and I hope you can remain friends.
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