Saturday, December 19, 2009

Divorce advice?getting back into the workforce?

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon, I am 25 yrs old going on 26 and my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old(he shares the same dad as my daughter).Our divorce is a bit ugly he cheated we seperated i cheated in retalition which is how my son was concieved and we tried to make it work but that never happened.I worked for about 2.5 -3 years during our marriage as a community college proffesor(adjunct) and HS history teacher.But have now worked at all for the last 2 yrs except for some babysitting jobs and helping out at my friends bakery.I wont be able to get a job as a teacher this time of year so i need a fill in?My friend offered me a job as manager/ a cake decorator at her bakery for $13.50 4-5 days a week,sometimes sat.mornings, 6-8 hrs.She said the days and hours vary by seasons.Do i take the job?even though its not a job i would normally take?Divorce advice?getting back into the workforce?
Well - it sounds like you have a friend that's trying to do what they can to help you out.





What I would likely do in this situation is see if I could get something in a school system (maybe substitute teach?) If you aren't having luck there - then try talking to your friend.





Let her know you'll take the job - but that you are looking for other things in your field...See what she has to say.





Besides - look at the bright side - you'll be exposed to something new - you might find that you like it. You really don't have much to lose.Divorce advice?getting back into the workforce?
You never know when you can get a job as a teacher. A year ago I was student teaching and then hired in November, right before I graduated. It was actually in my contract that I had to graduate.





Take the cake job though. Right now a job is a job. But I would quickly try to get a job in the education field. See how much you can get for subbing or as a paraprofessional.
Yes....take it. More than likely one of the benefits will be flexibility in the hours with issues with your divorce or kids.





You can always keep looking, and I hope you do so. Try community colleges and do it now....for Spring. Check job postings ion the internet and head-hunters if you can too.





Good luck to you.....so so sorry you have to go thru such a thing! Some men are just plain PIGS. Gives the rest of us a bad name.....grrrrrrrr.





Everything WILL work out for you. hug

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