Can you give me some advice on my parents divorce?

So... my parents are getting a divorce. Its just so frustrating. I hate my father. Its his fault. I don't know what to do. I keep yelling at him and running from home to my friends house. I'm scared and hurt. And I feel like its all my fault! What can I do? I just don't want to feel this anymore. I'm just so...I can't even describe it! Can you give me some advice?Can you give me some advice on my parents divorce?
I am so sorry that you are going through this difficult time right now. I can feel the hurt and pain that this has inflicted on you. I wish that I could protect your from this hurt but I can't and the only way to the other side is through it. The best way to handle this is to love both of your parents even if it is your dad's fault. He still loves you and nothing will ever change the fact that he is your dad. Forever his blood flows through your veins. You don't have to agree with everything your dad does but remember he is human and he makes mistakes just like you do. Tell your parents how you feel...don't run away from your feelings. Ask the questions that you want to know and don't stuff them inside. The more you communicate the easier it will be.





Good Luck





Can you give me some advice on my parents divorce?
Divorce is one of the hardest things a kid will have to endure. It's understandable that you hate your dad. It's not your fault. Don't think that. You need to be supportive of your mom and she of you. Rely on your friends also--don't sit around and beat your dad down. Try to focus on the positive things you have with your family. You will be ok. Email me if you need to talk.
first.. do you really know who is at fault... the true story.... probably not..... my parents divorced when i was 13.... i to felt as though it was my fault..... my mom said it was my dads fault and my dad said it was my moms fault...... since it was my dad that left.. i felt it was his fault... or i had done something to make him leave...... finally at 17 i broke and cried to my dad and told him i was so very sorry for whatever i did to make him leave my mom...... it was only then when he realized i had been blaming myself all those years that the truth came out.... he showed me letters that my mom had written to this married man for several years.... and my dad could not stay with her any longer......................


you see what you think you may know...you really probably don't.... i felt bad for blaming my dad all those years.....................


advice from experience.................. don't blame either one....... try to stay out of it.....
First, realize that the divorce is between your parents and is in no way your fault. Second, it sounds as if you are taking sides. Be neutral if possible. Third, speak to your school counselor about where to get help to talk through your emotions.
It is NOT your fault that your mom and dad fell out of love do not blame yourself. Dont beat your self up over it just focus on your friends and not the problems of your parents.
First it's your dad's fault now it's your fault? Which is it?





Regardless, you don't have the whole story.