My parents need to get a divorce! Advice anyone?

Lately they haven't been fighting a lot, but everyone once in a while, they'll get into a big fight. I'm tired of having to deal with it, I'm tired of having to pick sides, I'm tired of hearing them demean each other, I just want them to divorce already. I AM TIRED! I ******* HATE LIVING HERE! I CAN'T WAIT TILL NEXT SEMESTER, SO I CAN MOVE OUT AGAIN FOR COLLEGE. Sorry, I just need to vent. Any Advice?My parents need to get a divorce! Advice anyone?
As soon as they say one thing that is an attempt to draw you into a battle, walk away, out of the room, telling them that they are to fight their own battles and that you will not be a part of them nor dragged in.


In psychology it is called refusing to ';play ball';


The ';ball'; is the thing they say to you to try to draw you in, and they have played the ';ball'; into your court.


What you do as a response is to put your hands behind your back and refuse to play.


When they are arguing, try to leave for a couple hours, as I realize how stressful it is to have to listen to the sounds of loud screaming and arguing, even if you have your bedroom door closed and can't hear what they are saying. Ask your brother if he would like to go see a movie, go to the mall, or ask a friend, but either way, get out of the house until the argument is over. If it's a bad argument in the evening, spend the night at a friend's or neighbors. Leaving is another way for you to squash their attempts to drag you into their arguments. You don't know at this point when your parents will separate, and they are behaving like children. Get a part-time job and start working on your financial independence; with a homelife like yours, you need it as quickly as possible. Find girlfriends and continue renting apartment throughout the year, not just during school semesters.My parents need to get a divorce! Advice anyone?
Only they can can work it out only......
IF I WAS YOU I WOULD DO THINGS TO MAKE THEM REMEMBER WHY THEY FELL INLOVE, SUCH AS, GO THROUGH OLD FAMILY PICS, INVITE THEM TO THE PLACE THE PROPOSED, TALK TO THEM TELL THEM ITS NOT FAIR TO YOU. IF YOU DONT WANT TO TALK TO THEM, THAN ACCIDENTLY LEAVE A NOTE ON THE FLOOR THAT YOU WROTE ALL YOUR FEELINGS DOWN ABOUT THIER RELATIONSHIP AND HOW IT EFFECTS YOU, MAKE THEM THINK YOU WROTE IT FOR ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS, THAN ACT LIKE YOU DROPPED IT ON ACCIDENT. THEY HAVE TO REALIZE WHAT THEY ARE PUTTING YOU THROUGH.
sounds like you're doing ok as you are!





you could tell them how you feel when they do this thing they do. ??
they might be just waiting till you leave for college to separate.


just stay out of their arguments.
Keep venting as it helps releave the frustrations. Journaling is good too! Don't take sides and stay out of their arguments. If they come to you to vent, just tell them that they can only help themselves.
i know you are very painful now when your loved mum and dad is trying to get a divorce, no matter what they feel they still your parents,and you are one household,you dot want to lose anyone,cause you love them.


why dot you try something to save your parent's marriage,this is what you should do!


and i can only suggest you let your parent read this http://save-the-marriage.info


it is one wonderful book that help so many couple save their marriage,and maybe they will get immensely satisfying results with their relationship FAST.


hope that can help you! honey!:)


wish your family can turn normal!