My friends husband wants a divorce but she refuses to divorce him and she keeps asking me for advice?

her husband has been cheating on her their whole marriage of 3 years he's throwing hints at her that he no longer loves her and he wants out. she keeps saying that she doesn't want to leave him and she doesn't care about the cheating she just wants to be THE WIFE. she keeps asking me what she should do. i told her that she's the only one that can make that decision. what should i do? i feel that she should leave but i never told her that because it's her marriageMy friends husband wants a divorce but she refuses to divorce him and she keeps asking me for advice?
She better prepare herself because eventually her cheating husband will be yanked out of her life if the right idiot comes along for him. The only thing you can tell her to do is try to get her husband into some marriage counseling in hopes that he changes his ways before that happens.Sometimes people are just addicted to a relationship because you know it cannot be about the love especially when there is no respect.My friends husband wants a divorce but she refuses to divorce him and she keeps asking me for advice?
I would keep saying what you are saying because if you do say how you feel she could very well get mad and take out her frustrations about her husband out on you. I am only guessing but I bet he isn't around much for her to be mad at or that she is still nice to him. If she continues to hound you I would wonder if she was looking for a scapegoat to be mad at instead of her husband. Tell her it is making you uncomfortable that she keeps asking you the same thing when it is her decision to make. I would hope that she would move on for her own happiness but sounds like it is going to take some time.
If your friend's husband wants a divorce, there is nothing stopping him from filing for divorce.





Your friend has some self-esteem issues. It is not normal for a woman to ignore the fact that her husband is cheating on her and disrespecting the marriage. She is so hung up on wanting to be married that she is willing to allow her husband to abuse the marriage. She needs help.
She's going to continue asking for advise until you give her the advise she wants to hear.


What she doesn't know is that her husband does not need her permission to file for divorce. He can file anytime he wants. If she contests the divorce then he can get a lawyer and it will become final eventually. Contesting a divorce will only cause more emotional stress and a lot of extra money.
I can say from experience that being the wife is not worth being with someone who has no interest in you. My ex-husband had 3 affairs starting 6 months after we got married. I begged him to let me come home because I just wanted to be with him. It was the worst decision I could have ever made. It made me feel like less of a person because my own husband didn't want me. He eventually became very abusive because I wasn't the wife that I should be. It's not a good situation if she can get out, she should. It's better for all parties involved.
sheloves has hit the nail on the head. it doesn't matter what ur friend wants, if he files she can't do anything about it. and why would she want to stay married to a person who cheats on her anyway? sounds like a lack of self esteem issue to me.





good luck and GOD bless.
he's just using her and has pretty much confessed to that. tell her to let him go and get an attorney. you can't make someone love you. at least she has a great friend for support. best of luck to her. she is better off without him.
He does NOT need her permission or signature to get divorced from her. She is one of the biggest fools I have heard about in a looong time. Tell her to get use to the title of ex wife because he is going to leave.
In some states only one person needs to sign a the divorce papers..


So he can divorce her with her agreeing to it..
snatch and grab her by the hair kicking and screaming out the door. maybe that'll do it.
Tell her to get OUT - her husband is only using her as a mattress. She'll be happier in the end.
wtf, if she knows hes cheating on her why would she even want to be with him.
Ultimately, that is the problem with divorce. While it take two people to get married, it only take one to get divorced.





if he wants a divorce, then all he has to do is file the papers. Your friend can ignore them, but eventually the judge will get tired of waiting and pass a judgment whether she wants it or not.





if she wants to hang in there through it all, that is HER choice. You simply need to tell her, ';Whatever you do is fine with me.';